For
those of us watching, it was a somewhat
surreal yet remarkable moment.
The first heat of the Women’s 100
metres Sprint at the World Athletic Championships
in Paris began on a predictable and familiar
note. The athletes from diverse nations
around the world peeled off their tracksuits
to reveal their finely tuned physiques,
including the now mandatory six pack,
and prepared themselves in the customary
way. Yet in lane 1, the athlete wearing
‘Number 1’ was doing anything
but the predictable.
Wearing a baggy t-shirt and sweatpants
she prepared herself as best she knew
how for her first ever athletic competition.
Many initially thought it was some kind
of mistake. Was this a joke or maybe an
over enthusiastic steward trying out the
blocks for their ‘famous for five’
moment? However, as the athlete called
for the help of one of the official stewards
to explain to her ‘what’ the
starting blocks were and ‘how’
to use them, reality began to dawn. Not
only was this her first competitive race,
it was also the first track she had ever
seen, let alone run on. History was about
to be made.
The gun went off and I am sure that most
people like myself cannot remember who
won the heat – all of our attention
was on Lima Azimi, Afghanistan’s
first ever female athlete to compete in
an international competition. She came
last, running in her baggy pants to set
her personal best, season’s best
and her country’s national record
of 18.37 seconds for 100 metres in this,
her first ever, 100 metres race. It was
the making of a Disney classic, yet she
is no fictitious Cinderella and her life
is certainly no fairytale.
Up until the overthrow of the oppressive
Taliban regime, Lima, like most other
women in her country, lived in fear. She
rarely left her parents’ house and
when she did so it was with great trepidation.
“It was very difficult for girls”,
she said. “Sometimes I did get out
but always with ‘the tent’
(the all-covering burqa worn by strict
orthodox women) Even then, you faced problems
if the Taliban saw you.”
Much of the commentary in the press focussed
on the clothes she wore. It was of particular
note to our image/fashion-obsessed culture
that she said even the dour and conservative
clothes she wore would still be ‘too’
risqué in her culture and she would
‘never’ wear shorts. However,
there was obviously something far more
profound going on that we as leaders can
learn from.
Brave Lima must still have been incredibly
nervous appearing in public without her
burqa – allowing people other than
her closest family to see her ‘real’
self. No doubt she still will have some
concerns about the response back home
to appearing in the way she did. Yet hers
is an important step in advancing the
cause of human rights – that of
freedom of expression and human dignity,
previously denied her by a form of religious
fascism. Hopefully, this moving event
will provide the impetus for others to
enrich the world by revealing more of
their real selves.
Those of us who work in developing and
supporting leaders will note a familiar
scene. We witness scores of execs hiding
behind their own emotional and psychological
‘burqa’s’. These are
made up of all sorts of fears, hurts,
insecurities, failures and agendas - the
net result of which is they rarely, if
ever, reveal their true selves. Oft heard
comments at off-site leadership retreats
include ‘well I never knew that’
or ‘they were such a different person’.
A shift in context and culture often gives
leaders permission to enrich the lives
of their co-workers through disclosing
more of themselves and coming out from
behind their self or context imposed ‘burqa’.
We wouldn’t want to compare our
work context to the challenges young Lima
faced, but many of us do know that it
is often very hard to be our ‘true’
selves at work. It takes courage, conviction
and depth of character to do such things
– traits that Lima would appear
to have in abundance. They are also essential
components in the DNA of substantive and
high performing leadership. As we make
brave choices to risk and reveal, we give
others permission to do the same, we lay
down markers for the kind of organisation
we want to lead – one that values
people for who they really are rather
than corporate clones.
Lima concluded her interview “It
was not important to get a position, it
was just important to participate. It’s
important for me, for my family and for
my country” – and probably
for the rest of us as well. Thank you
Lima.
“Permanence, perseverance
and persistence, in spite of all obstacles
discouragements and impossibilities -
It is this, that in all things, distinguishes
the strong soul from the weak.”
Thomas Carlyle
Phil Wall
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