What
was your worst moment over Christmas?
Mine was to have to be Father Christmas
for a load of refugee children from Eastern
Europe. I have to have been the worst
Santa they had ever seen and heard - he
doesn't normally have an English Cockney
accent for a start!! Beneath the fluffy
white mask, hidden from all, a rare event
occurred - I was embarrassed and went
very red.
On reflection it was my discomfort in
being someone other than myself that caused
me such angst. However, I do realise that
for many of us, trying to be someone that
we are not is a daily occurrence. Many
of us find ourselves working in corporate
environments that not only refuse to give
us permission to be ourselves but often
violate the fundamentals of who we are.
Each morning, before we leave for the
office and walk out the door we check
not only our clothes but also that our
mask is firmly in place. The mask of cultural
and social expectations, the mask of our
own fears and insecurities, the mask determined
by corporate acceptability within our
own working context. The great tragedy
of this is two-fold:
Firstly, it doesn't enable us to give
the best of who we are to those that we
lead and serve. The Gallup organisation,
through it's extensive research, has shown
us that we get the best out of people
not by trying to put in what God has left
out, but rather you get the best when
you seek to draw out what has already
been put in. The mountain of psychometric
and personality tests concur with this
assertion. 'Know Thyself and Be Thyself'
has very much become a mantra of the day
that enables us to become the best that
only we can be.
Secondly, when we lead from behind the
mask our leadership is so often perceived
as inauthentic and duplicitous. For those
who think this a soft and fluffy issue,
think again. The primary factor in customer
loyalty is employee commitment; the primary
glue in employee commitment is their trust
in leadership. If people trust you, they
will follow.
The corporate world has been corrupted
more times than we care to remember, by
leaders who have violated trust. This
has created a culture of cynicism of pandemic
proportions in so much of corporate culture
today that by definition, leaders are
rarely trusted. For all of our sakes,
this must change. Messer's Jones and Goffee
in their award winning article 'Why Should
People Follow You?' encourage a response
to this issue of to "be yourselves
- but with more skill".
For some, it is an issue of morality,
for others it is purely the discomfort
of the mask that creates the lack of trust.
From Signify, we wish you all the best
in life and business this year and encourage
you to make a significant New Years resolution.
We want to encourage you to be yourselves,
not just with more skill, but with more
passion and zeal.
Ho, ho, ho!!
Phil Wall
CEO |